absolute-ly missy

March 4, 2008

send nadnut to ozzie

Filed under: Barflies, Events — missyling @ 1:28 am

one of the dearest people that i’ve gotten to know through blogging is nadnut, a spunky and absolutely adorable girl and she’s been shortlisted amongst the top 7 in the unexpected australia adventure contest.

out of these 7 contestants, the top 3 winners will get to win a 9 days trip to whichever destinations that they’ve chosen and for nad, that’ll be sydney. these top 3 winners will be determined by an online voting poll from 3 - 10 march, which means that the results are determined by you! yes, stop looking around, you!

so hurry up and vote for her.

oh, are you asking why?

i’ll let her entry speak for itself.

convinced now?

here’s how you can go about voting:

  1. register here,
  2. then, head to nad’s userpage here to click and vote for her!

need an extra push?

then listen to this: voters for this contest will also stand a chance to win a macbook air, a sony ericsson k8501, a nikon b60, a nintendo wii and 2 sandisk ducati thumbdrive (4gb)!

so, stop waiting and start clicking to send nad to ozzie!

p/s: nad, we’ll all expect presents if you win this! heh.

March 3, 2008

what people ought to know, but don’t - especially me

Filed under: Birthdays!, Musing reflections — missyling @ 11:43 am

i’ve learnt one very important thing over my last weekend:

NEVER (and i really mean never ever) eat flu medicine before going for a drinking session.

you’ll be out before you know it. and you won’t even know what the fuck hit you until it’s too late.

take it from me.

p/s: sorry for the delay in the birthday pictures, they’ll be up soon - i promise! by this week, no less.

pp/s: happy birthdays to the feb/march babies - gracey, wendy and ivan!

February 26, 2008

happy birthday to me - another 365 days older

Filed under: Birthdays!, Work work... — missyling @ 7:27 pm

another 365 days have passed and i’m one year older again.

it’s my birthday and i’m stuck at the kl international airport waiting for my flight home - exhausted and incredibly sleepy.

what a lousy way to spend this special day - not sleeping enough, worrying and working my ass off.

damn it.

happy birthday

anyway, happy birthday to me.

more updates on this eventful work trip when i’m back home - the internet connection is horrible here.

p/s: thank you for all the birthday wishes, i’m really touched that you remembered!

February 24, 2008

this is the day

Filed under: Heartbeats, The L Files — missyling @ 11:05 am
linked hearts

i know that this is back-dated, but this is one of the significant moments in my life and it needs to be in here.

finally i’ve taken a step forward after much hesitation and doubts - and one of the major factors is that you’ve inspired me enough for me to overcome my fears to risk it again.

for that, i thank you.

and i’m looking forward to us.

January 30, 2008

“blogging” has gone to the dogs

Filed under: Musing reflections, My 2 cents worth — missyling @ 11:12 pm
blogging has gone to the dogs

if anyone has noticed, there seems to be a wave of old-time bloggers shutting down their blogs recently.

sad to say, quite a number of them are blogs that i read regularly.

i used to remember a time, not very long ago, where there were only a handful of people whom i knew were blogging. although lacking in quantity, most of these blogs were interesting, down to earth or, at the very least, worth someone’s time.

i don’t know when, or how, it happened. from a relatively obscure activity/hobby, blogging suddenly become the most talked-about “in” thing in town. everyone, who was anyone, started logging onto the internet and established their own blogs. from there, this phenomenon quickly developed into an unstoppable tidal wave - blog aggregators, blog advertisements… all types of blog “accessories”. you name it, someone has invented it.

and it didn’t stop there.

from being a pure leisure activity/hobby, blogging soon evolved into a money-generating tool with the popularization of blog ads. most of the blog ad mechanisms work on the general principal, as below:

the higher the traffic volume for blog = the more blog ad income for blog owner.

under such a mechanism, it will only make economic sense for the financially-motivated blog owner to try to increase the volume of traffic to his/her blog.

how? - is the next question.

now, that’s an easy question. what are people most interested in?

ans: sex. that’s why we have the saying - “sex sells’.

enter the proliferation of blog entries with sex-related titles.

coupled with the rise of blog aggregators, blog entries with such sexual innuendo quickly raised to the top of the most popular charts, once again proving the old adage.

sexual innuendo aside, these blog entries don’t even have any content - at all! some post links to websites of questionable nature, some are just pure lame nonsense…the list goes on. the contraversial titles are just baits to lure readers into clicking through and entering their blog sites to prop up traffic volume.

i’m not even saying that the quality of blogs has gone down.

what quality?!

although i’m not the ah kong of singapore blogs, like mrbrown, nor did i popularize blogging, like xiaxue. but i’ve been blogging for a relatively long time…from the time when people went “blog? what’s that?” to them going “oh yar, i’m a blogger too!”

i started blogging to find an outlet for things that i couldn’t express verbally, especially when my feelings were in a turmoil or going topsy turvey on me and words seemed to be the most effective way for me to express how i feel or vent those frustrations.

i didn’t want to tell people i had an online diary, right in the beginning, because i didn’t want to share that inner world - where i wrote down my honest, naked feelings under an anonymous guise. slowly, i begun to realize that there was a handful of others who were the same way, who expressed their thoughts and feelings in words.

it was refreshing to be able to share thoughts or opinions with them, without fear of being judged since we were all veiled by the internet. as these like-minded people got to know each other better, being anonymous no longer seemed that important. blogging had seemed to be a more-or-less accepted norm, abeit being a lesser known activity. it was good that way.

however, with the recent developments (or should i say “degradation”) in this area, the thought of uttering the word “blogger” rings so fake in my ears. blogging has turned into a fad…one that many people follow mindlessly, or do just for the sake of making money, trying to become famous etc.

blogging has gone to the dogs.

of course, this does not apply to everyone who blogs. there are still those who stick by their guns and blog on maintaining their own integrity or objectives. these, i admire and respect.

how can we return to a simpler time - where blogging was merely a true reflection or expression of how one feels?

January 21, 2008

the jay chou concert - part i

Filed under: Events — missyling @ 9:28 am

the jay chou concert was good.

spectacular showmanship, theatrics and effects.

and the atmosphere was so overwhelming with screaming fans and waving lightsticks.

it was a busy, exhausting but extremely fulfilling weekend.

will update on it more later.

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Filed under: Heartbeats, The L Files, The emotional fool — missyling @ 1:18 am

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January 15, 2008

post of weary

Filed under: Grey skies — missyling @ 4:44 pm

i’m sick and tired of all the nonsense. when will it ever cease?

stop taking advantage of my trust and faith in people, it will run dry one day and that day is coming really soon.

January 7, 2008

如果你也听说

Filed under: Heartbeats, The emotional fool — missyling @ 8:36 pm

最近发生了很多事,不知道从何说起。

心情起伏不定,却又表达不出来。

既然有口难言,就让歌曲说出心情的写照。。。

每次听到这首歌,都觉得感触很深。

也许是歌词写的感人,还是歌手感情丰富。

无论怎样,她都唱出了某些感受, 某些伤痛。。。让听的人产生共鸣。

就希望当这首歌唱完时,感触也就此结束。

January 4, 2008

…while beginning a new chapter.

Filed under: Festivities, Musing reflections, everyday stuff — missyling @ 1:49 am

just like most people, the beginning of a new year is always a good time for me to review happenings of yesteryear - the highlights, events or memorable moments.

in 2007:

it was through these experiences (and, of course, many others) that i’ve grew to understand myself a little better and gained further insight on people around me. good or bad, i’m thankful that i’ve survived 2007.

looking towards the future - 2008:

  • to make further advancement in career.
  • to spend more time with family and friends.
  • to try to keep my new year resolutions (yes, i’ve made a few!).
  • to blog more regularly (i realized that there might have been less than 40 posts in total for 2007, my gosh!).

yes, missyling.wordpress.com is coming alive again after hibernating for….goodness knows how long it has been.

seeya.

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